I’ll begin by sharing some personal information: when I met my husband, he did not drink or enjoy drinking. In the beginning, I was concerned that my passion for wine and his lack of interest was symbolic of our overall lack of compatibility. Then I figured out that I would always have a designated driver at my beck and call. . . .
He does now enjoy a glass of wine occasionally, and following his growing interest in wine, as well as the development of his tastes in wine, has been a re-education for me. I had forgotten that for most people, the early stages of wine drinking simply are not that pleasant. Most new drinkers don’t taste the hints of blackberry jam, coffee, or honeysuckle that wine enthusiasts search for and pick out.
What do they taste? Burning, and sourness.
Some people take to wine more quickly than others. If you are a freshly-minted oenophile, still battling to pick up on “passionfruit” or “oak” while suffering through the taste of “burning,” here are some words of encouragement and ideas:
Get to know your tongue. Your palate (or tastebuds) experiences different flavors more strongly in certain areas. Although the original idea of the “tongue map” (tip of the tongue distinguishes sourness, sides pick up on bitterness, etc.) has been discounted, some areas are more sensitive than others. Also, remember that your taste buds are located not only on your tongue, but elsewhere in your mouth and upper throat. The sensitivity of taste buds varies from person to person. In my case, I prefer to taste wine on the flat, middle part of my tongue (I may swish when tasting, but when drinking “for real” I tend to cloister my wine). Perhaps because it is closely connected to smell receptors, I find it overwhelming to wash wine over the back of my tongue. I taste and swallow wine in a different way than I taste and swallow water and soda. I guide it to different parts of my tongue and mouth. You might try experimenting as you drink: what happens if you receive it on the tip of your tongue? Or roll it along the sides of your mouth? If all of this sounds crazy and unreasonable, try to remember the process of learning to blow a bubble with chewing gum. You had to train yourself to hold your tongue, lips, cheeks, etc., in a new position to successfully blow a bubble. Rolling your wine over different areas of your mouth may give you a completely different tasting experience.
Include food with your tasting experience. Often the right cheese, fruit, chocolate, steak, or simple cracker can really change the way your palate perceives a wine. As my husband said, “It isn’t like drinking Coke. Whatever you’re eating, a Coke tastes like a Coke. But wine flavors are really affected by the foods you eat.”
Recognize that the bottle you’re drinking might be tainted. Wine that isn’t stored properly can become corked, exhibit bottle sickness, or turn vinegary. The problem might be the individual bottle you’re sampling, rather than a particular variety or even a particular vintage.
Think about flavors you enjoy. If you drink black coffee, love cilantro, and find young/tart fruit enjoyable, then starting with light red wines can be appropriate. However, if you tend to drink soda and fruit juices, prefer cocoa to coffee, have been scarred by a wasabi experience, and would rather eat a fluffy, mild cake than snack on olives. . . . It could make more sense to start with semi-sweet and/or light-bodied white wines. As you learn more about your tastes and how to manage your palate experiences, it could be that other kinds of wines will be more appealing to you.
Don’t force yourself to drink wine you don’t enjoy! Wine isn’t “medicine” which will help you grow up strong and cool. I’ve spoken with a number of people who think that they “should” enjoy wine, particularly “sophisticated” or expensive wine. As the corny chef aprons say, “Life’s too short to drink bad wine.” However, remember that “bad” doesn’t mean “cheap” or “low-brow” or “sweet.” “Bad” means “does not taste good.”
Start reading labels. If you discover that you prefer sweeter wines, look for terms like “seckt,” “semi-sweet,” “sweet,” “vanilla,” “rich fruit,” etc. On the other hand, terms like “oak,” “tobacco,” “smoky,” “tannin,” “dry” and “brut” may signal more woody (and frankly, “sour”) flavors. White wines like Vouvray, Viognier, and Semillon may be good choices. Reds such as Grenache and Merlot may also be enjoyable to you. Lots of new wine drinkers enjoy Blanc de Noir varieties. These wines are made from red wine grapes, but the skins (which impart color and tannins) have only limited contact with the juiced grapes. They typically have a pink or rose tint. White Zinfandel is an example of a Blanc de Noir, and there are a number of award-winning White Zins at very reasonable prices.
Most importantly, don’t feel that you should enjoy a wine because it’s highly rated, or because a wine-snob friend recommended it to you. Attending tastings can be a great way to try wide varieties of wine without committing yourself to purchasing an entire bottle. Experiment and have fun!